I use to think my AH was near his bottom. I used to think, "oh boy, this is it. He's nearing the bottom."
But... Nope. Not there yet. No sign of getting there anytime soon.
I think all that waiting for his bottom... Kept me stuck. Had me living under the assumption that I needed him to get sober so I could live the life I wanted.
I'm so glad you're changing and taking care of you
