Originally Posted by
sweetteewalls 
I am going to Alanon meeting tonight. Its a start...it sucks because I just cannot seem to get through the day. I work at home and I can't function, staring at my computer screen. My daughter is not dressed when I usually bath her, do her hair and feed her first thing in the morning and I've been barely getting by. I am disappointed and don't know how to get out of this viscious cycle.
I work from home too... and on days like ^that... I take my jammie wearing self (and babies if they happen to be home too!) out for a coffee and donut, or whatever. I give myself a vacation/mulligan day. Take it easy on yourself...
one step at a time. going to a meeting tonight will definetly help make you feel better. So, all you have to do - is get through the day and get to that meeting. That's it.