One of the hardest things for me to sort out is boundaries, especially when it comes to dealing with alcoholics.
I've learned recently that the only way to figure that out is to make the determination within myself.
My boundaries have to be determined by me. I used to take a hell of a lot of crap before i would understand, set and hold my boundary.
yes, we ask for opinions, and yes we often wonder if we're doing the right thing.
this is a great link from the stickies above too
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...tionships.html