Originally Posted by TeM

Speaking from the other side of the great gender divide, I can relate, as well. My AW and I have drifted apart in various ways over the years, including our sex life. As she has descended into the bottle, I've completely lost interest.

This topic pops up occasionally, and I'm pretty sure she tells our daughter that I don't love her any more and I'm not affectionate enough, yada yada yada.

And, to make matters worse, AW's drinking buddy brags how her husband wants sex so often that she dreads going to bed. So, AW conveniently blames me for her need to drink.