Mike, yes it would have been a very expensive flight!
I really like the ideas of just having him mail the stuff or letting a third person handle it!
Just to play devil's advocate, since I am moving I have also been thinking about if it would meet worth actually meeting him and trying to have the closure talk we never had? You guys can be honest about that one, is that incredibly stupid of me? I'm moving clear across the country, so it's not like it would be easy for me to get caught up in his BS either. Thoughts? Most importantly I would only want to do that if I got to a place in my recovery good enough for it.
I haven't and am not going to be quick to make any decisions either. I think this is something I need to think about long and hard before I do whatever I end up doing. Thanks all