Stuff like that is just crazy. My xah once sent me a link to a song and said don't take this the wrong way or anything but this is funny. It was something about taking out the breaks on girlfriends car so she drove off a cliff. I can't remember really but it was not a funny song.
He was active then and I'm not sure he even really grasped out passive-aggressive that was. He was certianly acting out anger that he was not dealing with.