Originally Posted by
lednylo 
what is our psyche trying to achieve
My guess? Closure.
Maybe
this time I'll get it right, and it will be the happy ending that I always wanted.
Maybe this is the one!
But life doesn't work that way.
If we seek out unhealthy relationships so we can "fix" them, we're still going to get stepped on.
Instead we need to fix ourselves so that we can have healthy relationships!