Thank you everyone for the input, I'll make some calls
. Of course I'll take her out if she gets disruptive, but I honestly don't see how it won't be a weekly thing, which is what concerns me. The only way I can leave her at home is if her father isn't drinking, and in those rare events I probably wouldn't be going to the meeting anyway. We are in a pretty remote location -- there is no central office, the only meetings are the ones set up by concerned individuals (I know three of them, they're pastors...I suspect the other is probably affiliated with the VA). I'll call around and see what happens -- sadly, it is the one deciding factor about whether or not I can go.