Originally Posted by
Cyranoak 
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Dude, do what you want to do because YOU want to do it-- whatever that is. If she has an issue with it than tough ****.
Cyranoak
Your wife can say the same about her drinking, how will that benefit the marriage?
I don't know about others, but "I'll do what I want because I want and if she has an issue with then tough *****" doesn't sound like the ideal relationship to me, regardless of addictions and recovery.