Haven't posted in awhile. My AH has not been drinking for two weeks today! He won't go to AA, but I don't think he's drinking from the way he's acting. I wouldn't say that he's in recovery since he doesn't have a program, but he's said that he'll go to our counselor individually. It's a start and something that he also has never done in over 30 years of marriage. I'm hoping and praying that he'll go to the counselor we saw jointly for marriage counseling because he likes her. She will try to get him to go to AA so I wouldn't need to say anything. He doesn't talk about his sobriety at all and wouldn't even tell our grown kids. I guess he's afraid he'll slip so he doesn't want to say anything yet. I don't talk about it because he wants to keep it so private. I feel he'll talk about it when he's ready. So I'm keeping my mouth shut and taking one day at a time. I'm enjoying his new personality minus alcohol...he's so much easier to get along with
