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Old 06-20-2011, 04:29 PM
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Leaping
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Supervised visitation

The time has come for me to spell out the divorce settlement and put down what I want. I need your collective wisdom regarding the supervised visitation -

How long? I was thinking one year -

with stipulations such as - random urine testing, documented treatment with a counselor and a sponsor/AA involvement. Too much? Too little?

who does the supervising? How does that work? His family? - not my favorite option since they are blaming me for his addiction and have been very cruel during this whole process. Any advice here?

He is currently not even living in the same state as me so this is all "just in case" anyway but it needs to be spelled out so that he cant wiggle through any gap.

Maybe giving legal advice on here is frowned upon, I do have a lawyer so I am just looking for other peoples experiences with this - what worked/what didnt -
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