[QUOTE] I have made it clear that I can't talk about the future ... [QUOTE]
The thing is, you are talking to him.
It's scary to get sober and be in his situation. Alcoholics WANT someone to take care of them so they don't have to be responsible. Someone else to pay the bills so they can drink. You are certainly right, he must get sober and get his life together.
But what about you? Is this the life you want?