I did marry my binge drinker - here is a summary of our 10 year relationship
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...730-i-did.html
Now... there are many men out there. Many men that are not binge drinkers, not abusive... I think part of why I married may have been because I did not feel worthy of better ?! ... Now I now I am worthy of better ... I also know that I would probably not have listened to any advice at the time, because my thinking was distorted ...
Good luck