i'm only going to add that it is very difficult & expensive to undo a marriage.
Really, think about what you have posted....why are you chancing getting tied to this man?...he is already bullying you. He does not value your opinions. he would rather binge drink or smoke pot. What kind of daily life are you going to have together????
can you depend on him? will he love and cherish you? or will you be afraid of him when he's drunk in the future?