You might forge some really meaningful relationships with these people through the tragedy. In my regular meeting, there are people there who "bother me" on some levels, but there are other people who I have developed real friendships with, and that outweighs any negativity about those people I may have in the meeting, for me. Give it some time. I find it sometimes miraculous that topics at meetings are exactly how I am feeling on that particular day. There have been days I did not want to be there, but forcing myself to go always makes me one bit better. Good luck to you and let your Higher Power be with you!
