I am sorry you are experiencing that. I think it hurts more when we try to do nice things for people and wind up getting hurt. Your intentions were good.
I received the same from my xagf. Her bipolar conditions flared up and down violently and she relapsed. Then she broke up with me and used all kinds of contradictory reasons why. I checked in with her once and she was polite. E-mailed her again the next day and was SMACKED with "don't ever contact me again." That was nearly 2 months ago and I'm still slowly learning how to detach. I don't truly know if she's stabilized and / or sober. I just have to trust that she is OK.
Thank you for the beautiful song lyrics. They really resonate with me.