I just posted this on another thread but it seems fitting here. Maybe asking yourself if you would rather be right or have peace? Oftentimes, it is a choice between one or the other. Like LaTeeDa...I have engaged for too long in the power struggle. It has not made me a happy nor loving person. And it is not my problem, its his. So from this point forward I am choosing peace. I already know when I am right. I don't need anyone to define that for me.
You seem awfully worried about an outcome that hasn't happened yet and most likely won't happen. Remember the saying here "what others think of me is none of my business".