Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
I just feel like I look like the guilty party since there is no "evidence" other than the texts themselves and AH and his brother are convinced I created them fakely which I am sure is possible and I HATE not being believed.
This is what letting go is all about. I spent years in a power struggle with my AH. I had a persistent need to prove I was right and he was wrong. I had to WIN. All it did was make me angry, unhappy, and crazy.
It was only when I stopped caring what he thought, what he said, what he did that I stopped feeling angry, unhappy and crazy.
Trying to convince him (or them) of anything is futile.
L