I don't understand why you are putting down & picking on people who are weak & struggling just because you are strong & seem to have it all together. I'm happy for you, but can't you just have enough compassion or kindness not to judge & kick people who are down? Everybody can't be as strong or matter-of-fact as you. Maybe they want to, but just can't seem to find the strength that they need? Why do you want to make them feel bad about themselves on top of everything else they are dealing with? I'm not meaning to offend you but you don't seem to mind offending anyone else. Where's your compassion?