Originally Posted by
saphira 
I guess my question is how do you help your partner through all of the resentment?
That's a good question.
The only thing I can do is to get recovered. Then I make a living amends one day at a time... My wife will work through her resentments, I will work through mine.
Anything else, to me, seems hollow, empty words. Just promises.
Maybe be grateful that he opened up and shared his feelings... Not only did it help him, I'm sure, it helps you... also it seems that he trusted you with his feelings, not something he did before?
You are doing great... As they say, time takes time... I know, that's an annoying phrase, but true.
