Oh yeah, those CODEPENDENT expectations.
Isn't the Codie Golden Rule "Do unto others and expect that they will do exactly the same way back to you"? That one has gotten me in trouble more times than I care to think about. It took me years with Spicoli before I realized that I was expecting rational behavior out of an irrational person. Now that really shouldn't have been a hard concept to grasp. Alas, I was still in kiss the toad mode.