Forgive but NEVER forget. Some A folks seem to think their partners and family have the attention span of a goldfish. That if they do something nasty, then apologise for it, that they are forgiven and it is erased from everyone's memories.....so they keep on doing whatever.
I may forgive, but my 3rd eye is looking out in case of a repeat performance.
If it recurs, that is it for me....darn the 3 strikes rule, kiddo. This ain't baseball.