Your husband is barely sober. Early sobriety, even with AA, is very rocky because we've just given up our best friend, our higher power, alcohol/drugs. Now early sobriety lasts for many months and it's an emotional roller coaster. I suggest trying to keep the focus on you, building yourself up and starting your path. Build yourself a rich, happy life (Al-Anon is terrific for that). If you can let go of expectations, that's a big help. Whatever his path, he has to take it alone....