Originally Posted by
FLsunshine 
Will RAH be soo hurtful that he will take this moment away from me..When can it be MY turn for joy..
When you decide its time to stop letting this happen. No one can ruin anything for you unless you let them. No one can take a moment away from you unless you let them. No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.
It's all in your attitude and mindset toward him. Lucky for us - that is something we can have the courage to change.