Papers for the divorce? Or to sell the house or both? Ultimately, whatever it is he's refusing to sign, that really sucks for you. Why they need to make it as acrimonious as possible is just b.s. I'm really sorry JRG. Stay strong. Your instinct that he's doing this bc you aren't rolling over and going along with the let's pretend things are fine and go away for our anniversary is 100% right. Passive aggressive King baby esque ploy to get his way... Hang in there!