Reading this helps me face the reality that I am already living this life.
Yes!!! But you know what? When you are divorced, when you are no longer having to deal with the expectations you may or may not have that the A is actually going to contribute,
it gets easier.
I used to hate cleaning the house because my AH would be sitting in the den drinking and watching football. Now, I love cleaning the house because... it's
my house and
my responsibility and there's nobody there to remind me that I
could have a functioning partnership but I don't.
Just a thought to encourage you.