Oh BobbyJ I have no words of advise from any experience but just wanted to give you some support. Oh my GOD I can only imagine what you must be going through. It is one thing dealing with or having her deal with an addicted spouse it is a whole other beast when it comes to DV. He has been hurting your baby and it could get even uglier. Please do whatever you can if not for your baby but for your grandbaby. She has the choice to stay, your grandbaby does not. I think what you said to her is a fantastic start and a the door you opened for her is one I really hope she walks through. Sending prayers your way!