Originally Posted by
CheekyAngel 
I told her id go to the hospital and wait all day with her if she gets the tests and scans but she makes excuses why she shouldnt. I desperatly want her to get help, but she wont.
Why won't she go to the hospital? Would she see a GP instead? A GP can do many of the initial tests and send them to the local lab for analysis. Do you share a GP? If so you could discuss your concerns with him/her and they could advise you if your locality has any outreach services which could attempt to help her.