Thank you everyone for the support.
it has made it that bit easier.
just to put you guys at ease i wasn't arguing to prove a point to her, other than im not gonna sit here and take it.
I was doing it to prove a point to myself.
I knew I would get no such thing as logic and reasoning.
I've always seen myself as a strong person and now that is being tested and im not going to let myself get weak.
i'm going to be changing for the better because of this. its her choice if she wants to do the same.