Wow Shell, I am so happy (does that sound nuts?) for you. SOOOO glad and relieved for you that the lawyer meeting went well and that you can use the video footage and that you have a huge amt of protections in place for your son. I can only hope that I will have the same experience. In a way I wish I'd stumble across some horrid stash that AH has and have all the evidence I need! That's sad isn't it?
Your son is so so lucky to have such a loving, brave Dad. Wishing you all the best...