Originally Posted by
Shellcrusher 
What?
I don't know how to state it any clearer. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that you're going to war with your soon to be ex-wife. You're not. You're going through a divorce. Do what is necessary to protect your best interests and your child. No need to try to destroy one another in the process by "unleashing the beast".
Just advice to do with as you please.