I'm known as the queen of confrontation
and it's odd
because I rarely confront anyone LOL.
I know what happens to me on the INSIDE
when I catch someone lying to me.
I close them out.
I never believe a word that comes out of their mouth
ever again.
Whether it's a cheracter defect or not
I could NOT be less concerned
because it's been a survival technique
that's saved me far more often
than it's hurt me.
I may forgive
but I never forget.
When someone in recovery lies to me
I know that the disease is still directing them
and not their courage.
It 'places' them somewhere in my head
or on my list
and I deal with them from that place.
Believe it or not -
I'm not comfortable with confrontation.
If I can stand up for what's right
thats another matter.
I'm a wolverine when it comes to that.
Or a snapping turtle.
When someone tells me a lie
I USUALLY just nod and dismiss them.
And that's it for them.
I'd like to hear how others do it as well.