Yes, some cartons of cigs can definitely be that or more. Hubby and I both smoke but our cartons only cost about 20 bucks if we go into Missouri to buy them (when and if we can afford them..lol)..I notice you are on the east coast though, so I am sure they are more expensive there.
I have been with my husband to a T before and it turns out that the T was completely horrible to my husband. The T put ME on a pedestal and told my hubs that if he wants to keep me he will get his crap together..needless to say my hubby refused to go back. It does depend on the T. If you don't wanna go, then by all means don't. BUT if you do go and feel uncomfortable, then get up and walk out the door. You don't have to put up with anything you don't want to put up with.
Good luck!!