Not really, just letting you know ti's normal.
You give and give and give
and it has to stop somewhere, right?
Well, this is where its' stopped.
Sex is an act of trust.
you haven't any any more.
That just can't be written off
like it didn't happen.
A whole NEW trust has to be established.
And lots of times,
sex in troubled relationships
is just another act of ownership.
Of control.
Of getting what *I* want
at your expense kind of game playing.
We balk at that as well.
And it's normal.
So don't let him tell you it isn't.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with YOU
for not wanting intimacy
with someone you can't trust
or may not respect right now.
You have the right to say no.