I've decided to take the girls and go away for a night so I am going to look at some options and pick something fun to do and enjoy myself...
Yes, in a way AH's being a huge ass once again really truly is a gift from god bc my sadness is definitely gone at the moment and it's replaced by reality and the fact that he is a sorry excuse for a human being.
Plenty of alcoholics aren't abusive and cruel and he is and for yrs I explained it away to myself as being part of the disease but in reality he is just abusive-- alcoholic or not-- the alcoholism just makes him that much bigger of a jerk.
Already this morning the emails are pouring in and I have them in a "smart folder" on my mac and will fwd them off to my lawyer. At least he's still stupid enough to be sending things in writing!