Hi sharkbait and welcome to the forum!
I'm sorry for the reason, but I'm glad you've found us.
I hope we can offer the kind of support you're needing
to make the decisions you are facing right now.
I hope you'll seek support in real life as well.
WHen theres' little children involved
it's hard to keep up with everything
when everything is going well
much less when there's alcoholism thrown in.
3-d support
would give you a place to be
when you can't handle what's happening
under your own roof.
It's a place to sort out what's going on
in your head...
even when it's all over the place.
I think this is a great place
for new members to educate
themselves about alcoholism
because trust me
it's nothing like biting nails
or even smoking or chocolate.
each addiction is different
even though they may scientifically occur
in the same area of the brain.
and not a single one
can be dropped easily.
Take your time and meet and greet
and read the stikies at the top of the page
and maybe find a meeting near you
to check Alanon or find a support group
nearby.
Welcome!