(((((Hugs)))))
Sometimes HP sends us very clear signals about who is who... they hurt at first... but its also a push to move forward. She is showing you who she is now... now its time, to show who YOU are, a dad worried about his kid and able to see this problem is hers and its a long long way to go before she is anywhere near recovered. Also a man that deserves everything that is good in this world.. EVERYTHING... starting with peace, quiet, good sleep.... your kid deserves a normal life, too.
I got none of that when I was sharing the same house with an addict, plain and simple. It is difficult to stop blaming alcohol and see its the person that is doing all these things. But it also set me free, I no longer put excuses for him, I had to accept I can't cure him, no one can, I'd better start thinking about me. I hit "codie bottom".
((((More hugs)))))