YUP YUP YUP!!!
There is peace in NO CONTACT. So long as he's drinking, ice his calls.
And tell him that.
I told my ex "until and unless you get sober, DO NOT CONTACT ME."
Makes it blatantly clear that the drinking is unacceptable, and losing you is the consequence.
Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
i think as long as you leave the door wide open he's going to continue to take advantage and spew all his crap all over you.
is this still working for ya?