Originally Posted by
m1k3 
Quacks from my AW this last week before I moved out.
She told me that I needed that more than she did, she didn't have any problems with anger.
Perhaps she and my AH could meet. He too has diagnosed me with "severe anger" and doesn't see and I will never again try to "show" him that his passive aggressive, emotional abuse is a far far greater sign of anger than a spouse stating honestly how she feels. In his mind my sitting down and trying to tell him how I feel =s attack/anger/rage, but his behaviors (verbal abuse, lying, gaslighting etc...) is all fine bc it's done in a quiet, soft, creepy tone of voice.