WAIT! Before you move out, I know that in New York if you move out, you're considered the one "abandoning the home", meaning you won't be able to get him to leave the apt. later on, you'll only be able to take a new apt. Try going to family court and finding out if you can petition for a restraining order. Most family courts have offices in the building run by non-profits and lawyers who provide service to low-income petitioners. Good luck!