Matt, my non-A stalker:You've never given me time to know the real me! You never gave me a chance. I am not the person you think I am.
Me: I think I have known you for 6 years now; if that is not enough time to know the "real" you then I am content to not meet him.
AH: I have been to AA and there are people who use heroin and cocaine there!!! I am not as messed up as they are. I don't think I need to go like they do.