Originally Posted by
bruingirl 
Thanks for your support everyone! I think you all are right, and I have already taken the steps to cut both of them out life. They can do what they want! I'm just lucky to be out of this mess.
The night before I was able to receive closure, I went before god and finally just prayed and said how grateful I was. I hadn't done that in a long time. I am starting to have more and more confidence again that my HP is guiding me through this and doing whats the absolute BEST for me!
I am very glad you've cut this out of your life. It's a cancer and should be cut out and removed ASAP!!! If you didn't, like cancer it would spread all over and infect the rest of your body (your life).
Sometimes people looking for closure stick around and stay in the soup so to speak, just waiting for the closure. But sometimes they are also getting sicker. It's just unhealthy. Period.
You are out of this. Now move on. Get and stay healthy. Keep working on yourself and focus on you.