I know I read that. A lot of unemployed people are capable of finding and keeping a job. Being capable and actually having the job are miles apart. A lot of people are capable of paying bills and choose to spend the money elsewhere. Perhaps it is best for your family that he not work at this time, which is an option too. Hopefully your income alone can get you by if need be. If his parents are willing to participate in supporting your family then that is a bit of a safety net but I would be cautious about depending on his parents for ongoing needs.
I've just had such a negative experience with making this type of thing work that I am cautious and, well, I'm here to share my experiences.
Take what you like and leave the rest as they say.