Originally Posted by
skippernlilg 
I'm drinking. You don't want that around <<<child>>> so wanted me to leave. I understand that and frankly don't have the heart any more to argue about it or what color a cloud is.
Well, that's pretty cut and dry... You've told him you don't want the drinking, he said he's going to keep drinking. He doesn't want to talk about it anymore, and honestly, I don't blame him. It is what it is.
Time to move on Skipper. Your relationship with him is over. Time to work on accepting that.
My AH has taken the same position("screw you, I'm drinking!!) and Im actually somewhat relieved because if he baited me with , "I'll quit, I'll go to AA... Whatever it takes!" it would make it harder for me to stay focused on what's best for me