Had a lightbulb moment yesterday. And yes, I have known this on the outside, but the light just got through the black hole that is my mind.
The main reason I have such a hard time (putting it mildly) making my son leave in order to face the consequences of his life is that I am just as sick as he is!
Yup- I am sick too. Never accepted that fully, I guess.
hugs
chicory