Wywriter
I have informed him that I have enough to cover our bills and groceries, but that I do not have money for alcohol.
Please dont let your guard down. An alcoholic is going to find money for beer however locked down you think you have got the accounts. Alcoholics are not trustworthy. Scenario: he will be applying for credit cards that only he will know about until they have racked up and that's when you will find out.
I didn't find out about one of my AH financial crisis until I opened up the front door to a debt collector.