Oh Gosh.
Unmanageable at its finest, I must say. I would have been crying too!
Totally normal reaction to a terrible situation. There's no way you would've known that particular conversation with those particular words would've taken place.
But, now you know. And he gave you a gift, really. He let you know how horrible a conversation with him can really be.
No sense in beating yourself up over the head with it. You live, you learn.
The power is now in your hands to develop a peace around you. It is possible as long as you recognize what is not peace and what is peace.
You can do this.
(((HUGS)))