please remember that this is NOT the man you married...he has morphed into something very ugly and cowardly...what kind of a "man" says that crap? Probably one that is very drunk and won't remember a word of it in the morning....He does excel at passing the blame...oh YESSSSS, it's YOUR fault he he MUST drink!
sooner or later your brain stops being angry and apathy? or something sets in and you will just roll with his balony and say "whatever" to pacify him...when he can't get a rise out of you he will quit and move on to another tactic....maybe his mommy?