Hi 4mymel
Cravings get easier...although it can be a lot of work in the early days.
I was committed to staying sober so I just rode them out...I rationalised them for what they were...my addiction.
I think it's important to have a strong support base too - noone does this alone - and between SR and AA and your partner it sounds like you should have that
Ego, though, is a big one...I was a go to guy too - I was the fixer....but I think I've actually grown a lot from reaching out and receiving help. I'm a lot more balanced and compassionate, and connected than I used to be - another benefit of recovery.
Welcome aboard
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