You bet, grizz.
Now link that to detachment and boundaries. I'm not setting a boundary on my AW. That doesn't work. I set it with myself. The boundary is I won't engage with her when she's actively drinking. I also won't talk to her. I've always been a confrontational person so it's very hard for me to keep my mouth shut. Eventually I learned that it doesn't matter if I say anything. It won't make any impact on the AW.
So I say nothing, other than wow, walk away and by sticking to my guns, I've detached from the situation.
I was in charge of me. I controlled the outcome in my favor. I imposed nothing on my AW. I kept a situation from escalating. That is detachment and setting boundaries. At least for me.
I hope you're doing better today. It's raining like hell here but I hope the fog is lifting for you.